Library / Feelings

For when you feel

Social Conformity / Fitting In

The pressure to be like everyone else, and the cost of trying.

256 picks matched to this feeling

Films

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  Eighth Grade
  Film · 2018
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  Billy Elliot
  Film · 2000
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  Booksmart
  Film · 2019
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  Captain Fantastic
  Film · 2016
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  Dead Poets Society
  Film · 1989
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  Guillermo del Toro's Pinocchio
  Film · 2022
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  How to Train Your Dragon
  Film · 2010
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  Moneyball
  Film · 2011
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  Nimona
  Film · 2023
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  Remember the Titans
  Film · 2000
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  The Breakfast Club
  Film · 1985
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  The Edge of Seventeen
  Film · 2016
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  The Half of It
  Film · 2020
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  Wonder
  Film · 2017
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  Luca
  Film · 2021
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  Mid90s
  Film · 2018
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  Ratatouille
  Film · 2007
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  Revolutionary Road
  Film · 2008
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  Wolfwalkers
  Film · 2020
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  Strictly Ballroom
  Film · 1992
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  The Hunt
  Film · 2012
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  Pitch Perfect
  Film · 2012
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  Experimenter
  Film · 2015

TV shows

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  The Biggest Loser
  TV · 2004–2016; 2020
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  Black Mirror
  TV · 2011–present
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  Heartbreak High
  TV · 2022–2026
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  Skam
  TV · 2015–2017
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  Survivor
  TV · 2000–present
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  Terrace House
  TV · 2012–2020
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  All in the Family
  TV · 1971–1979
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  Degrassi: The Next Generation
  TV · 2001–2015
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  Freaks and Geeks
  TV · 1999–2000
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  The House of Flowers (La Casa de las Flores)
  TV · 2018–2020
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  My So-Called Life
  TV · 1994–1995
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  The Office (US)
  TV · 2005–2013
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  Schitt's Creek
  TV · 2015–2020
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  Skins
  TV · 2007–2013
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  The Twilight Zone
  TV · 1959–1964
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  Yellowjackets
  TV · 2021–present
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  3%
  TV · 2016–2020
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  Big Brother
  TV · 1999–present (US version 2000–present)
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  The Circle
  TV · 2018–2021 (UK); 2020–present (US)
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  Community
  TV · 2009–2015
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  Dear White People
  TV · 2017–2021
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  Élite
  TV · 2018–2024

Anime

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  Komi Can't Communicate
  Anime · 2021–2022

Documentaries

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  Deaf U
  Documentary · 2020
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  The Mask You Live In
  Documentary · 2015
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  Intelligent Lives
  Documentary · 2018
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  Bully
  Documentary · 2011
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  In a Different Key
  Documentary · 2022
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  My Beautiful Stutter
  Documentary · 2021
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  Paris Is Burning
  Documentary · 1990
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  Boys State
  Documentary · 2020

Books

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  An Angel at My Table
  Book · 1984 (vol. 2 of an autobiography, 1982–85)
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  Convenience Store Woman
  Book · 2016
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  The Death of Ivan Ilyich
  Book · 1886
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  Disability Visibility
  Book · 2020
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  The Fairy Tales of Hans Christian Andersen
  Book · 1835–1872
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  The Giver
  Book · 1993
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  The Lonely City
  Book · 2016
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  New Kid
  Book · 2019
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  The Perks of Being a Wallflower
  Book · 1999
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  The Scarlet Letter
  Book · 1850
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  Wonder
  Book · 2012
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  Adventures of Huckleberry Finn
  Book · 1884–1885
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  Brave New World
  Book · 1932
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  Carrie
  Book · 1974
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  The Chocolate War
  Book · 1974
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  A Double Life
  Book · 1848
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  Effi Briest
  Book · 1894–1895
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  Every Last Word
  Book · 2015
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  Girl, Interrupted
  Book · 1993
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  Heartstopper (graphic novels)
  Book · 2018–
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  The House in the Cerulean Sea
  Book · 2020
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  Housekeeping
  Book · 1980
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  Invisible Man
  Book · 1952
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  The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet
  Book · 2014
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  Look Me in the Eye
  Book · 2007
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  Lord of the Flies
  Book · 1954
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  Marcelo in the Real World
  Book · 2009
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  The Misanthrope
  Book · 1666
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  Moby-Dick
  Book · 1851
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  Mrs Dalloway
  Book · 1925
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  One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest
  Book · 1962
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  The Outsiders
  Book · 1967
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  The Picture of Dorian Gray
  Book · 1890 (expanded 1891)
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  Skim
  Book · 2008
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  Smile
  Book · 2010
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  Song of Myself
  Book · 1855 (untitled in first Leaves of Grass; titled 1881)
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  The State of Grace
  Book · 2017
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  The Stranger
  Book · 1942
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  Sula
  Book · 1973
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  To Kill a Mockingbird
  Book · 1960
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  Walden
  Book · 1854
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  We Have Always Lived in the Castle
  Book · 1962
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  Zhuangzi
  Book · c. 4th–3rd century BCE
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  The Invisible Boy
  Book · 2013
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  Chrysanthemum
  Book · 1991
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  Strictly No Elephants
  Book · 2015
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  Eichmann in Jerusalem: A Report on the Banality of Evil
  Book · 1963
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  The Day You Begin
  Book · 2018

Games

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  Gone Home
  Game · 2013
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  Journey
  Game · 2012
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  Undertale
  Game · 2015

Songs

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  Beautiful
  Song · 2002
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  Born This Way
  Song · 2011
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  Brave
  Song · 2013
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  Coat of Many Colors
  Song · 1971
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  Firework
  Song · 2010
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  Neon Gravestones
  Song · 2018
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  The Middle
  Song · 2001
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  Drew Barrymore
  Song · 2017
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  F**kin' Perfect
  Song · 2010
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  I Can
  Song · 2003
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  Scars to Your Beautiful
  Song · 2015
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  The Best Day
  Song · 2008
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  This Is Me
  Song · 2017
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  Try
  Song · 2014
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  Unpretty
  Song · 1999
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  Video
  Song · 2001
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  Who You Are
  Song · 2011
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  Creep
  Song · 1992
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  Cars
  Song · 1979
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  I'm Not Like Everybody Else
  Song · 1966
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  Here
  Song · 2015
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  Mowgli's Road
  Song · 2009
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  Q.U.E.E.N.
  Song · 2013
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  Beautifully Unconventional
  Song · 2017
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  Make Your Own Kind of Music
  Song · 1969
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  The Joke
  Song · 2017
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  Wild Things
  Song · 2015
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  Anything but Ordinary
  Song · 2002
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  Waving Through a Window
  Song · 2017
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  Complicated
  Song · 2002
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  Welcome to My Life
  Song · 2004
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  Subdivisions
  Song · 1982
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  Little Boxes
  Song · 1967
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  Another Brick in the Wall, Part 2
  Song · 1979
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  The Logical Song
  Song · 1979
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  Follow Your Arrow
  Song · 2013
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  Smalltown Boy
  Song · 1984
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  Usseewa
  Song · 2020
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  No More Dream
  Song · 2013
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  Give Me Some Sunshine
  Song · 2009
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  ballad of a homeschooled girl
  Song · 2023
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  Your Best American Girl
  Song · 2016
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  I Am Not My Hair
  Song · 2006
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  Merry Go 'Round
  Song · 2012
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  Sk8er Boi
  Song · 2002
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  School
  Song · 1974
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  The Art of Peer Pressure
  Song · 2012
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  No Such Thing
  Song · 2001

Album

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  Everybody
  Album · 2017

Podcasts

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  The Moth
  Podcast · 1997–present (Moth Radio Hour since 2009)
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  Invisibilia
  Podcast · 2015–2023
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  Other People's Problems
  Podcast · 2018–2025 (Seasons 1–5; Season 5 released May 2025)
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  Unlocking Us with Brené Brown
  Podcast · 2020–present (hiatus 2023; relaunched Feb 2024)
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  Maintenance Phase
  Podcast · 2020

Stand-up specials

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  Fortune Feimster: Sweet & Salty
  Stand-up · 2020
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  Hannah Gadsby: Douglas
  Stand-up · 2020
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  Atsuko Okatsuka: The Intruder
  Stand-up · 2022
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  Hasan Minhaj: Homecoming King
  Stand-up · 2017
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  John Mulaney: New in Town
  Stand-up · 2012
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  George Carlin: It's Bad for Ya!
  Stand-up · 2008
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  Urzila Carlson: Overqualified Loser
  Stand-up · 2020

Tv episode

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  Glee: Pilot (S1E1)
  TV episode · 2009

Videos

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  The world needs all kinds of minds | Temple Grandin
  Video · 2010
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  "Cuerdas", Cortometraje completo
  Video · 2014
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  A call to men | Tony Porter
  Video · 2010
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  Amazing Things Happen - by Alexander Amelines
  Video · 2017
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  Connected, but alone? | Sherry Turkle
  Video · 2012
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  Deep sea diving ... in a wheelchair - Sue Austin
  Video · 2012
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  How autism freed me to be myself | Rosie King
  Video · 2014
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  In a Heartbeat - Animated Short Film
  Video · 2017
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  Loneliness
  Video · 2019
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  The enchanting music of sign language | Christine Sun Kim
  Video · 2015
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  The power of introverts | Susan Cain | TED
  Video · 2012
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  What is imposter syndrome and how can you combat it? - Elizabeth Cox
  Video · 2018
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  Why I'm Done Trying To Be "Man Enough" | Justin Baldoni @TED
  Video · 2017
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  Every Way Being Blind Makes My Life Different (Ft. Molly Burke) | Allure
  Video · 2020
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  I have Tourette's. Get over it. | Analise and Robyn Twemlow | TEDxChristchurch
  Video · Unconfirmed (before late 2016)
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  Tourettes Syndrome: Tics, Tricks, and Triumph | Luke Manton | TEDxShoreditch
  Video · 2023
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  Purl (Pixar SparkShorts)
  Video · 2019

Book chapters

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  The Courage to Be Disliked: The Third Night, Discard Other People's Tasks
  Book chapter · 2013
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  The Gifts of Imperfection: Guidepost #1, Cultivating Authenticity
  Book chapter · 2010