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The Middle

Song · 2001 · Jimmy Eat World (performer; written by the band, lyrics by Jim Adkins; produced by Jimmy Eat World and Mark Trombino) · from the album Bleed American

If you feel like you're on the outside right now, this one's for you. You're just in the middle of it. 🎸 #TheMiddle

Who it's for

The song works like a big sibling's pep talk set to loud guitars: it speaks directly to someone who feels shut out and tells them it will be alright.

Insecure→Hopeful

Feelings it meets

What it is

"The Middle" is a song by Jimmy Eat World, written by frontman Jim Adkins and released in October 2001 as the second single from the album Bleed American. Adkins wrote it after a message from a young listener who felt excluded by her peers despite sharing the band's musical tastes, which led him to reflect on punk's inclusive ideals.

Where to find it

Spotify, Apple Music, YouTube Music, Amazon Music (widely available). The official music video (a pool party where the viewer's stand-in feels out of place) is widely available on YouTube.

Before you start

Age: Ages 9+

For nonconformity the world whips you with its displeasure.Ralph Waldo Emerson, Essays: First Series, “Self-Reliance”

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