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I Am Not My Hair

Song · 2006 · India.Arie. Album: Testimony: Vol. 1, Life & Relationship

Not my hair, not my skin. Me. 🌺

Who it's for

India.Arie's song pushes back against being judged by appearance, especially the pressures Black women face about hair, and grounds identity in something deeper.

Judged on the surface→Grounded in deeper worth

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What it is

"I Am Not My Hair" was the lead single from India.Arie's third album, Testimony: Vol. 1, Life & Relationship (2006), first released digitally in November 2005; a remix with Akon was later released. The song addresses identity beyond appearance and pushes back on the judgment of Black women's hair against Eurocentric beauty standards.

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All major streaming services.

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Whoso would be a man, must be a nonconformist.Ralph Waldo Emerson, Essays: First Series, “Self-Reliance”

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