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Fortune Feimster: Sweet & Salty

Stand-up · 2020 · Fortune Feimster (written and performed); directed by Krysia Plonka; Netflix

The tomboy, the debutante mom, and a hometown crowd cheering her on. Coming out can be a comedy, not a tragedy.

Who it's for

Feimster tells coming-out and tomboy-childhood stories as warm family comedy rather than tragedy, which normalizes queer identity for viewers who rarely see it portrayed as ordinary and happy.

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What it is

Fortune Feimster's first Netflix stand-up hour, released in January 2020 and filmed in Charlotte, North Carolina, near where she grew up. She tells autobiographical stories about her Southern childhood as a Girl Scout and debutante, her family's fondness for Hooters, and a movie that helped her understand her sexuality. Her coming-out story runs through the special, and her mother appears in it.

Where to find it

Netflix original. Streaming availability rotates; check JustWatch.

Before you start

Heads up: Strong language and sexual content.

Age: TV-MA (suggested 15+ for co-viewing with a parent)

Your hearts know in silence the secrets of the days and the nights.Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Self-Knowledge”

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