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Your Best American Girl

Song · 2016 · Mitski. Album: Puberty 2

Stop trying to be their best American girl. 🎸

Who it's for

Mitski's song is about loving someone whose world and upbringing she can't fit into, and coming to accept her own background instead.

Not enough, outside→Accepting of self

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What it is

"Your Best American Girl" was the lead single from Mitski's fourth studio album, Puberty 2, released March 1, 2016. Its autobiographical lyrics express her wish for a romantic relationship while accepting that her identity and upbringing stand in the way. Mitski said the music video plays on the idea of, as a Japanese girl, never quite fitting in with a genre full of white American men.

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For nonconformity the world whips you with its displeasure.Ralph Waldo Emerson, Essays: First Series, “Self-Reliance”

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