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3 secrets of resilient people | Lucy Hone | TEDxChristchurch

Video · 2019 · Lucy Hone, PhD, resilience researcher, NZ Institute of Wellbeing & Resilience · TEDx Talks

One question for the worst days: is what I'm doing helping or harming me?

Who it's for

Hone, a resilience researcher, describes using her own field's tools after her 12-year-old daughter Abi was killed in a car crash.

Devastated, overwhelmed, searching for a way to survive the day→Steadier, with a sense of agency and permission to grieve

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What it is

Resilience researcher Lucy Hone gave this talk at TEDxChristchurch, describing how she turned the strategies from her own field on herself after her 12-year-old daughter Abi died in a car accident, and how some well-meaning advice made her grief harder.

Where to find it

Free on YouTube.

Before you start

Heads up: A child's death in a car accident.

Age: Not rated (suggested 13+)

The world has kissed my soul with its pain, asking for its return in songs.Rabindranath Tagore, Stray Birds, no. 167

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