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Reign Over Me

Film · 2007 · Dir. Mike Binder; written by Mike Binder. Starring Adam Sandler, Don Cheadle, Jada Pinkett Smith, Liv Tyler, Saffron Burrows, Donald Sutherland

Some grief looks like headphones on, volume up, and never saying their names. A friend who keeps showing up can change that.

Who it's for

Charlie Fineman lost his wife and three daughters on 9/11 and, five years later, has built a life around not remembering: headphones, video games, drumming, and refusing to hear their names.

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What it is

Written and directed by Mike Binder, the drama follows Charlie Fineman (Adam Sandler), who lost his wife and three daughters on September 11, 2001, and five years later lives withdrawn behind headphones that block out any mention of them.

Where to find it

Rent or buy on major digital stores. Streaming availability rotates; check JustWatch.

Before you start

Heads up: Loss of family on 9/11; a suicide attempt.

Age: R (language, some sexual references) (Common Sense: 16+)

I have been bent and broken, but—I hope—into a better shape.Charles Dickens, Great Expectations, Chapter LIX

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