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Like Father, Like Son

Film · 2013 · Dir. Hirokazu Kore-eda; written and edited by Hirokazu Kore-eda. Starring Masaharu Fukuyama, Machiko Ono, Yōko Maki, Lily Franky, Keita Ninomiya, Shōgen Hwang

Always working so they'll have everything? This film asks what your kid actually wants from you.

Who it's for

Kore-eda sets the high-achieving, always-working father next to a relaxed dad who fixes toys and takes baths with his kids, without turning either into a cartoon.

Guilty / Torn→Reflective / Reconnected

Feelings it meets

What it is

Ryōta Nonomiya is a successful Tokyo architect so absorbed in his work that he rarely sees his wife, Midori, or their six-year-old son, Keita. The hospital then reveals that Keita was switched at birth: their biological son, Ryūsei, has been raised by the Saikis, a warm, chaotic shopkeeper family with far less money and far more time.

Where to find it

Rent or buy on major digital stores; distributed in the US by IFC Films. Streaming availability rotates; check JustWatch.

Before you start

Heads up: Young boys swapped between families.

Age: Not rated in the US (suggested 12+)

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