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Where Do We Go

Song · 2026 · Ayra Starr. Written by Oyinkansola Sarah Aderibigbe (Ayra Starr), Ilya Salmanzadeh, Amanda Ibanez, Mason Tanner and Malika Hamza; produced by Ilya. Single (Mavin / Republic)

For the one who still won't tell you what you are.

Who it's for

It puts the central question of every situationship into the title and lets you dance while asking it.

Stuck in limbo→Clear-headed and confident

Feelings it meets

What it is

An up-tempo Afropop single about a secret relationship that never gets defined. Ayra Starr has said it came from a real situationship: late-night visits and private meetups, real feelings on her side, and the knowledge that it was unhealthy and unlikely to go anywhere.

Where to find it

All major streaming services.

Before you start

Heads up: Themes of a secret hookup.

Age: Suggested 13+

Do not seat your love upon a precipice because it is high.Rabindranath Tagore, Stray Birds, no. 15

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