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Vulnerable

Song · 2020 · Selena Gomez. Album: Rare

for when you're scared to let your guard down 💗

Who it's for

Selena Gomez asks whether a partner will protect her if she lowers her defenses.

Hesitant to open up→Cautiously trusting

Feelings it meets

What it is

"Vulnerable" is a 2020 song by Selena Gomez from her third studio album, Rare, released 10 January 2020. She co-wrote it with Amy Allen, Jon Bellion, Jordan Johnson and Stefan Johnson. The song is about her struggle to open up to someone: she wonders whether a partner could handle her emotional vulnerabilities and fears that opening up could end as painfully as past relationships did.

Where to find it

All major streaming services.

Before you start

Age: All ages

In vain have I struggled. It will not do. My feelings will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you.Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice, Chapter XXXIV

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