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Somebody That I Used to Know

Song · 2011 · Gotye feat. Kimbra (written by Wally De Backer, sampling Luiz Bonfá's Seville; produced by Gotye) · from the album Making Mirrors

Funny how two people can both walk away feeling like the one who got hurt. 🎨

Who it's for

Gotye said the song draws on several of his past breakups, and its duet format lets listeners hear one partner's grievance and then the other's reply.

Bitter / Resentful→Clear-Headed

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What it is

"Somebody That I Used to Know" is a 2011 single by Gotye (Wally De Backer) featuring New Zealand singer Kimbra, from his third album Making Mirrors. Built on a sample of Luiz Bonfá's 1967 instrumental "Seville", it covers the aftermath of a breakup from both people's perspectives, with Kimbra singing the other partner's side.

Where to find it

Spotify, Apple Music, YouTube Music, Amazon Music (widely available); official music video on Gotye's YouTube channel.

Before you start

Age: Ages 12+

Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Pain”

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