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The brain in love | Helen Fisher

Video · 2008 · Helen Fisher, biological anthropologist (speaker) · TED channel (TED2008)

You're not crazy for feeling this much. Your brain on love and on rejection is doing exactly what it was built to do.

Who it's for

After rejection, many people feel ashamed of how obsessed or out of control they are; hearing a researcher describe brain-scan studies of people in love and people just rejected can reframe that intensity as biology rather than weakness.

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What it is

In this TED2008 talk, biological anthropologist Helen Fisher explores why humans crave romantic love so intensely and will go to great lengths for it.

Where to find it

YouTube, official TED channel (free). Also on TED.com.

Before you start

Age: Ages 14+

My person was hideous and my stature gigantic. What did this mean? Who was I? What was I? Whence did I come? What was my destination?Mary Shelley, Frankenstein, Chapter 15

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