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How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love

Book · 2021 · Logan Ury (Harvard-trained behavioural scientist, Director of Relationship Science at Hinge). Simon & Schuster

Stop sliding. Start deciding. 'What are we?' is a fair question.

Who it's for

Situationships often happen by drift: nobody chooses them, they just keep going.

Confused, stuck in limbo→Clear, intentional

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What it is

Logan Ury's dating guide applies behavioural science to the decisions people make while looking for a long-term relationship. Each chapter tackles one decision, mixing research, real-life stories and exercises: recognising unhelpful dating patterns, figuring out what matters in a partner, rethinking the idea of the spark, and choosing when to commit or when to end things.

Where to find it

In print, ebook and audiobook from major booksellers and libraries.

Before you start

Age: Adult (suitable for older teens)

You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope.Jane Austen, Persuasion, Chapter 23

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