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Grey Gardens

Documentary · 1975 · Directed by Albert and David Maysles, Ellen Hovde and Muffie Meyer. Featuring Edith 'Big Edie' Bouvier Beale and Edith 'Little Edie' Bouvier Beale. Portrait Films; The Criterion Co

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Who it's for

A mother and her adult daughter, relatives of Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, have lived together for decades in a crumbling East Hampton mansion.

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What it is

Grey Gardens is a 1975 documentary directed by Albert and David Maysles, Ellen Hovde and Muffie Meyer. It follows Edith "Big Edie" Bouvier Beale and her adult daughter Edith "Little Edie" Bouvier Beale, the aunt and first cousin of Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis. The two live together in poverty and isolation at Grey Gardens, their decaying East Hampton mansion.

Where to find it

The Criterion Collection (DVD/Blu-ray special edition, 2006); streaming availability rotates, check JustWatch.

Before you start

Heads up: Squalor and mother-daughter conflict.

Age: Not verified (suggested 13+)

Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Marriage”

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