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Mandy Len Catron: Falling in love is the easy part

Video · 2015 · Mandy Len Catron (writer) · TEDxChapmanU, featured on TED

Falling is the easy part. Choosing them every day is the love. 💞

Who it's for

Catron describes trying Aron's study of 36 increasingly personal questions followed by four minutes of eye contact, and genuinely falling for the man she tried it with.

Smitten, curious→Hopeful, intentional

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What it is

After her New York Times essay about falling in love using psychologist Arthur Aron's 36 questions went viral, Catron reflects on what the story left out: what it takes to stay in love.

Where to find it

Free on TED.com and YouTube.

Before you start

Age: All ages (suggested 13+)

When you love you should not say, “God is in my heart,” but rather, “I am in the heart of God.”Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Love”

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