U + Ur Hand

Who it's for

P!nk shuts down guys at a club who won't take no for an answer.

Feelings it meets

• Boundaries
• Self-Worth
• Celebration

What it is

"U + Ur Hand" is a 2006 song by P!nk, released as the third single from her fourth studio album, I'm Not Dead. She wrote it with Max Martin, Dr. Luke and Rami Yacoub. The song mocks men who hit on women in clubs, with a sharp, teasing tone toward a suitor who keeps pushing. P!nk took the title from a pickup line she heard men use in clubs.

Where to find it

All major streaming services.

Before you start

Heads up: Mild language and sexual innuendo.

Age: Suggested 13+

I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will,Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre, Chapter 23