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Listen to this when

Normal Girl

Song · 2017 · SZA. Album: Ctrl

when you wish you were the girl they'd bring home 🌸

Who it's for

SZA wishes she could be the polished, acceptable girl people want to bring home.

Inadequate and insecure→Seen and accepted

Feelings it meets

What it is

"Normal Girl" is track 12 on SZA's debut album Ctrl (June 2017), produced by Carter Lang and Scum and interpolating Drake's "Controlla." The song deals with the pressure to be the kind of woman others expect: someone who does everything right, is taken seriously, and fits traditional ideas of being worth marrying.

Where to find it

All major streaming services.

Before you start

Heads up: Explicit language and sexual references.

Age: Suggested 16+

The stream of truth flows through its channels of mistakes.Rabindranath Tagore, Stray Birds, no. 243

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