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Nobody's Supposed to Be Here

Song · 1998 · Deborah Cox. Album: One Wish

when your walls start coming down 🧱

Who it's for

Deborah Cox sings about swearing off love after being hurt, only to find herself falling again.

Guarded and scared→Hopeful and open

Feelings it meets

What it is

"Nobody's Supposed to Be Here" is a 1998 soul ballad by Canadian singer Deborah Cox, released as the lead single from her second album One Wish and written by Montell Jordan and Anthony "Shep" Crawford. The song is about a woman who has given up on love and is drawn back in by someone who gets past her defenses.

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