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One More Time with Feeling

Documentary · 2016 · Dir. Andrew Dominik. Featuring Nick Cave, Warren Ellis, Susie Bick and the Bad Seeds, recording Skeleton Tree at Air Studios, London.

He didn't say 'everything happens for a reason.' He said there are no words. Sometimes that's the most honest comfort. 🖤

Who it's for

Acute grief is often met with platitudes, and this film's greatest gift is refusing them: Cave openly rejects the comforting phrases people offer and describes grief as something that changes a person rather than something to get over.

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What it is

Andrew Dominik's documentary follows Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds as they record their sixteenth album, Skeleton Tree, at Air Studios in London after the death of Cave's 15-year-old son Arthur in 2015. It combines about 35 minutes of performance with interviews with Cave, Warren Ellis and Cave's wife Susie Bick, and Cave's spoken reflections.

Where to find it

Originally a one-night theatrical event (Sept 2016, extended by demand). Streaming availability rotates; check JustWatch.

Before you start

Heads up: A teenage child's accidental death.

Age: Not rated (suggested 15+)

I have been bent and broken, but—I hope—into a better shape.Charles Dickens, Great Expectations, Chapter LIX

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