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Tears in Heaven

Song · 1991 · Eric Clapton (performer; co-written with Will Jennings; produced by Russ Titelman) · from Rush (Music from the Motion Picture Soundtrack); a live version appears on Unplugged (1992

Grief doesn't end. It changes shape. Some songs were written so you wouldn't carry it alone. 🤍 #TearsInHeaven

Who it's for

The song gives words to the most isolating grief there is, the death of a child, from someone who lived it, which validates feelings bereaved parents often feel no one else can hold.

Sad→Comforted

Feelings it meets

What it is

Eric Clapton wrote "Tears in Heaven" with songwriter Will Jennings after the death of his four-year-old son, Conor, in March 1991, as a way to cope with his grief. It appeared on the soundtrack of the film Rush (1991), and a live version recorded for MTV Unplugged in January 1992 was released on his album Unplugged.

Where to find it

Spotify, Apple Music, YouTube Music, Amazon Music (widely available). The MTV Unplugged performance is also widely available.

Before you start

Heads up: Death of a child.

Age: Ages 12+

What passing-bells for these who die as cattle?Wilfred Owen, Poems, “Anthem for Doomed Youth”

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