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A Man Called Otto

Film · 2022 · Dir. Marc Forster; screenplay by David Magee (based on Fredrik Backman's novel A Man Called Ove). Starring Tom Hanks, Mariana Treviño, Rachel Keller, Manuel Garcia-Rulfo, Mack Bayd

Sometimes grief doesn't cry. It complains about how you parked.

Who it's for

Otto is a clear picture of how grief in an older man often shows up: not as tears but as irritation, rigid routines and pushing everyone away.

Bitter / Resentful→Comforted

Feelings it meets

What it is

Based on Fredrik Backman's novel A Man Called Ove, Marc Forster's film follows Otto Anderson, a widower in suburban Pittsburgh who has become bitter and rigidly orderly after losing his wife Sonya and being pushed into retirement. His solitary routine is interrupted when a young family moves in across the street, and the persistent, warm-hearted Marisol draws him into their lives.

Where to find it

Rent or buy on major digital stores. Streaming availability rotates; check JustWatch.

Before you start

Heads up: Repeated suicide attempts shown on screen.

Age: PG-13 (mature thematic material, language, suicide attempts)

Sorrow is hushed into peace in my heart like the evening among the silent trees.Rabindranath Tagore, Stray Birds, no. 10

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