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When Harry Met Sally...

Film · 1989 · Dir. Rob Reiner; written by Nora Ephron. Starring Billy Crystal, Meg Ryan, Carrie Fisher, Bruno Kirby

Twelve years of arguing, and it turned out the answer was sitting across the table the whole time. 🍂 Falling for your friend isn't the end of the friendship.

Who it's for

Harry and Sally spend twelve years arguing about whether men and women can be friends, and the film shows a friendship built on honesty, small rituals and knowing each other's quirks becoming the foundation for love.

Confused→Hopeful

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What it is

Rob Reiner's romantic comedy, written by Nora Ephron, begins in 1977 when recent University of Chicago graduates Harry Burns and Sally Albright share a car ride to New York and argue over whether men and women can ever just be friends. They cross paths again over the following decade, and after both of their relationships end they build a close, honest friendship while dating other people without success.

Where to find it

Rent or buy on major digital stores. Streaming availability rotates; check JustWatch. Soundtrack (Harry Connick Jr.) on music platforms.

Before you start

Heads up: Frank sexual talk and language.

Age: R (MPAA)

Do you think, because I am poor, obscure, plain, and little, I am soulless and heartless?Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre, Chapter XXIII

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