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Terms of Endearment

Film · 1983 · Written and directed by James L. Brooks, based on Larry McMurtry's novel. Starring Shirley MacLaine, Debra Winger, Jack Nicholson, Jeff Daniels, John Lithgow, Danny DeVito

She drove her crazy for thirty years. And in the end, she was the only one she wanted there. 💐

Who it's for

Terms of Endearment follows Aurora and Emma over many years, so the conflict feels lived-in rather than staged: a controlling mother, a daughter who marries against her wishes, and a bond that never breaks despite constant clashing.

Sad→Released (Catharsis)

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What it is

James L. Brooks's adaptation of Larry McMurtry's novel follows about three decades in the relationship between Aurora Greenway (Shirley MacLaine), a controlling widow in Houston, and her daughter Emma (Debra Winger).

Where to find it

Rent or buy on major digital stores. Streaming availability rotates; check JustWatch.

Before you start

Heads up: A young mother dies of cancer.

Age: PG

Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Children”

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