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Nervous Conditions

Book · 1988 · Tsitsi Dangarembga

'I was not sorry when my brother died.' Dangarembga's first line is a slap, and then she makes you understand it completely.

Who it's for

Tambu's opening confession that she was not sorry when her brother died is shocking, and the novel spends its length making that feeling understandable: he was the one the family educated, and she was the one expected to stay home.

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What it is

Tsitsi Dangarembga's 1988 debut novel, set in 1960s Rhodesia, is narrated by Tambu, a girl from a poor Shona family who opens by recounting the death of her older brother Nhamo, the child the family chose to educate. After his death, her educated uncle Babamukuru invites her to take Nhamo's place at his mission school.

Where to find it

In print; available from libraries (Libby/Hoopla) and as an audiobook. Not public domain.

Before you start

Heads up: An eating disorder and a father's beating.

Age: Ages 14+

I have as much soul as you,—and full as much heart!Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre, Chapter XXIII

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