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Your brain is terrible at predicting how sad you'll be. The good news: it's also better at recovering than you think. 🧠
After a disappointment, people tend to predict that their unhappiness will be intense and lasting.
In this TED2004 talk, psychologist Dan Gilbert, author of 'Stumbling on Happiness', argues that people are poor at predicting how events will make them feel. He compares lottery winners and people who became paraplegic, and introduces 'synthetic happiness': the satisfaction the mind creates when we don't get what we wanted, which he calls a 'psychological immune system'.
YouTube, official TED channel (free). Transcript on TED.com.
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Age: Ages 12+
She had been forced into prudence in her youth, she learned romance as she grew older:Jane Austen, Persuasion, Chapter IV