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The surprising science of happiness | Dan Gilbert

Video · 2004 · Dan Gilbert, Harvard psychologist (speaker) · TED channel

Your brain is terrible at predicting how sad you'll be. The good news: it's also better at recovering than you think. 🧠

Who it's for

After a disappointment, people tend to predict that their unhappiness will be intense and lasting.

Sad→Hopeful

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What it is

In this TED2004 talk, psychologist Dan Gilbert, author of 'Stumbling on Happiness', argues that people are poor at predicting how events will make them feel. He compares lottery winners and people who became paraplegic, and introduces 'synthetic happiness': the satisfaction the mind creates when we don't get what we wanted, which he calls a 'psychological immune system'.

Where to find it

YouTube, official TED channel (free). Transcript on TED.com.

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