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Book · 2022 · Hua Hsu

He didn't even like Ken at first. Then Ken became his best friend, and then he was gone. Hsu spent 20+ years keeping him alive on the page.

Who it's for

At Berkeley in the 1990s, Hsu, a Taiwanese American kid who made zines and defined himself against the mainstream, becomes best friends with Ken, a Japanese American fraternity member whose tastes he initially scorned.

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What it is

Hua Hsu's 2022 memoir recounts his friendship at UC Berkeley in the 1990s with Ken, a Japanese American student whose mainstream tastes contrasted with Hsu's identity as a first-generation Taiwanese American who shunned mainstream culture.

Where to find it

In print (Doubleday/Anchor) and widely available; libraries (Libby/Hoopla); audiobook available.

Before you start

Heads up: A close friend's murder.

Age: Ages 14+

Life has become richer by the love that has been lost.Rabindranath Tagore, Stray Birds, no. 223

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