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Normal People

Book · 2018 · Sally Rooney

Two people who understand each other perfectly... and still can't say one honest sentence. Painfully relatable. 📚

Who it's for

Connell and Marianne's on-off relationship, from a secret at school in Carricklea to Trinity College Dublin, shows how shame, class and unspoken feelings keep two people who deeply understand each other missing each other.

Confused→Understood

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What it is

Sally Rooney's 2018 novel set in County Sligo and Dublin between 2011 and 2015. Connell, a working-class student whose mother works as a housekeeper for Marianne's wealthy family, and Marianne, who is socially isolated, begin a secret relationship at secondary school.

Where to find it

In print; widely available from libraries (Libby/Hoopla where licensed) and as an ebook and an unabridged audiobook.

Before you start

Heads up: A friend's suicide and family abuse.

Age: Ages 16+

I have as much soul as you,—and full as much heart!Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre, Chapter XXIII

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