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Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982

Book · 2016 · Cho Nam-joo (translated by Jamie Chang)

She gave up her job for her baby. Then she started talking in other women's voices. The quiet book that made a country argue about sexism.

Who it's for

Kim Jiyoung, a 33-year-old who left her job to care for her baby daughter, begins speaking in the voices of other women (her mother, a friend who died), and her psychiatrist reconstructs her life: a family that favoured sons, harassment on the way home from sc.

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What it is

Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982 is Cho Nam-joo's 2016 Korean novel, translated into English by Jamie Chang (Liveright, 2020). It opens with Kim Jiyoung, now a stay-at-home mother, beginning to speak as other women she knows, then moves back through her childhood, schooling, working life and marriage, documenting everyday sexism and discrimination.

Where to find it

In print (Liveright in the US, Scribner in the UK); widely available from libraries (Libby/Hoopla) and as an audiobook. Not public domain. A 2019 Korean film adaptation exists.

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Age: Ages 14+

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