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Life Kit: Overcoming romantic obsession

Podcast · 2025 · NPR Life Kit, with guest Tom Bellamy, PhD (neuroscientist, author of Smitten)

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Who it's for

A short, practical episode for when a crush or ex has taken over your thoughts.

Fixated, restless→Grounded, hopeful

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What it is

In this episode of NPR's Life Kit, host Marielle Segarra talks with neuroscientist Tom Bellamy, author of Smitten, about limerence, a romantic infatuation marked by emotional highs and lows, intrusive thoughts and idealisation.

Where to find it

NPR Life Kit feed on NPR.org, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and other podcast apps; companion article on NPR.org.

Before you start

Heads up: Romantic obsession and heartbreak.

Age: Not rated (suggested 14+)

By touching you may kill, by keeping away you may possess.Rabindranath Tagore, Stray Birds, no. 197

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