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Don’t Touch My Hair

Song · 2016 · Solange feat. Sampha. Album: A Seat at the Table

a soft but firm no 🖤

Who it's for

Solange and Sampha use hair as a symbol of identity and self-ownership, quietly refusing to let others touch or define it.

Intruded upon→Calmly self-possessed

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What it is

"Don't Touch My Hair" is a 2016 song by Solange featuring Sampha, from her third studio album, A Seat at the Table. It centres on Black women's hair and bodily autonomy, treating hair as a statement of personal identity and pushing back against others policing or devaluing it. The music video, directed by Alan Ferguson, features many hairstyles, including Marcel waves, afros and braids.

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All major streaming services.

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Age: All ages

Laws and principles are not for the times when there is no temptation: they are for such moments as this, when body and soul rise in mutiny against their rigour;Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre, Chapter XXVII

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