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You Oughta Know

Song · 1995 · Alanis Morissette. Album: Jagged Little Pill

For rage that won't stay quiet 😤

Who it's for

Alanis Morissette confronts an ex who moved on quickly, letting pent-up rage pour out.

Furious and betrayed→Vented and powerful

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What it is

"You Oughta Know" is the lead single from Alanis Morissette's 1995 album Jagged Little Pill, co-written with producer Glen Ballard. It is an angry breakup song addressed to an ex-boyfriend who quickly moved on with someone else. Morissette has said she wrote it largely from her subconscious and has never publicly named who it is about.

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All major streaming services.

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Heads up: Explicit language and sexual references.

Age: Suggested 16+

Begin the morning by saying to thyself, I shall meet with the busybody, the ungrateful, arrogant, deceitful, envious, unsocial.Marcus Aurelius, The Thoughts of the Emperor Marcus Aurelius Antoninus, Book 2 (tr. George Long)

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