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World's Smallest Violin

Song · 2021 · AJR. Album: OK ORCHESTRA

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Who it's for

AJR sings about holding in feelings because your problems seem too minor to deserve attention, until it all builds up.

Bottled-up and invalidated→Allowed to feel

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What it is

"World's Smallest Violin" is a song by AJR from their 2021 album OK Orchestra. It is about downplaying your own pain by comparing it with other people's, as the narrator measures their struggles against relatives' hardships, such as a grandfather who fought in World War II. In 2022 the song's escalating climax went viral on TikTok.

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All major streaming services.

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Age: All ages

I sometimes hold it half a sin To put in words the grief I feel;Alfred, Lord Tennyson, In Memoriam A. H. H., Canto 5

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