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You Don't Own Me

Song · 1963 · Lesley Gore. Album: Lesley Gore Sings of Mixed-Up Hearts

you don't own me, period 💅

Who it's for

Recorded when Lesley Gore was 17, this early feminist anthem shows a young woman standing up to a man who wants to control her.

Controlled, fed up→Independent, strong

Feelings it meets

What it is

"You Don't Own Me" was written by John Madara and David White and recorded by Lesley Gore in 1963, when she was 17; Quincy Jones produced it, and it appears on Lesley Gore Sings of Mixed-Up Hearts. In the song a young woman tells a romantic partner that he cannot possess or control her, and she rejects his double standards. It reached No.

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