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Dress

Song · 1991 · PJ Harvey. Album: Dry

dressed up and deeply uncomfortable 👗

Who it's for

PJ Harvey's debut single is widely read as a woman struggling inside a dress worn to please, feeling awkward and constrained.

Self-conscious, uncomfortable→Defiant, self-possessed

Feelings it meets

What it is

"Dress" is the debut single by English musician PJ Harvey, written with Rob Ellis and released in 1991 ahead of her debut album Dry. The song follows a woman who wears an uncomfortable dress to impress a man and is left embarrassed when he does not appreciate it. Its black-and-white music video was directed by Maria Mochnacz.

Where to find it

All major streaming services.

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Age: Suggested 13+

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