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Retrospect for Life

Song · 1997 · Common feat. Lauryn Hill. Album: One Day It’ll All Make Sense

The decision nobody talks about out loud 💭

Who it's for

Common's autobiographical song weighs the choice between abortion and birth with his partner, looking back with regret and resolve.

Conflicted and guilty→Reflective and responsible

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What it is

"Retrospect for Life" is a 1997 single by Chicago rapper Common featuring Lauryn Hill, the first single from his third album, One Day It'll All Make Sense. Its lyrics are autobiographical and weigh the choice between abortion and birth after Common got a partner pregnant.

Where to find it

All major streaming services.

Before you start

Heads up: Discussion of abortion.

Age: Suggested 16+

You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Children”

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