Listen to this when
Girl, so confusing
sometimes the fix is just saying it to each other 💚
Who it's for
Charli confirmed it's about her complicated relationship with Lorde and how female artists are expected to relate to each other; Lorde's remix verse answers with her own insecurities, turning it into a healing dialogue.
Confused, competitive→Understood, ready to talk
Feelings it meets
What it is
"Girl, So Confusing" is a 2024 song by Charli XCX from her sixth studio album, Brat, about her strained relationship with another female musician; she confirmed in a Billboard interview that Lorde was the inspiration. A remix released in June 2024 adds a verse from Lorde that answers the original and touches on her own insecurities and self-confidence.
Where to find it
All major streaming services.
Before you start
Heads up: Mild language.
Age: Suggested 13+
What do we live for, if it is not to make life less difficult to each other?George Eliot, Middlemarch, Chapter LXXII
