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Ordinary People

Song · 2004 · John Legend (performer; written by John Legend and will.i.am) · from the album Get Lifted

Fighting doesn't always mean it's over. Sometimes it just means you're ordinary people. 🎹

Who it's for

The song describes a couple who argue and reconcile and admits they don't know how things will turn out, which normalises conflict as part of real love.

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What it is

A piano-and-voice ballad written and produced by John Legend and will.i.am, from Legend's debut album Get Lifted (2004) and released as a single in April 2005. The song explores an emotionally turbulent relationship marked by contradiction, guilt, doubt and fear, and Legend has described it as a general statement that relationships are difficult, have uncertain outcomes and require compromise.

Where to find it

Spotify, Apple Music, YouTube Music, Amazon Music (widely available).

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Age: Ages 12+

It is well to give when asked, but it is better to give unasked, through understanding;Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Giving”

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