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It's So Hard to Say Goodbye to Yesterday

Song · 1991 · Boyz II Men (a cappella cover; written by Freddie Perren and Christine Yarian for the 1975 film Cooley High, originally sung by G.C. Cameron; produced by Dallas Austin) · from the

Goodbye is hard even when you know it's time. Hold on to the memories and take them with you. 🤍

Who it's for

The a cappella harmonies create a sense of voices supporting one another, which can feel like communal comfort in grief.

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What it is

"It's So Hard to Say Goodbye to Yesterday" was written by Freddie Perren and Christine Yarian for the 1975 film Cooley High, where G.C. Cameron's original conveyed students' feelings as high school ended. Boyz II Men recorded an a cappella version, produced by Dallas Austin, for their 1991 debut album Cooleyhighharmony; it reached number two on the Billboard Hot 100.

Where to find it

Spotify, Apple Music, YouTube Music, Amazon Music (widely available); the official video was dedicated to MC Trouble and included footage of recently deceased entertainers.

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For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun?Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Death”

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