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Mary and Max

Film · 2009 · Dir. Adam Elliot; written by Adam Elliot (Australian clay animation). Voices: Toni Collette, Philip Seymour Hoffman, Eric Bana, Bethany Whitmore, Barry Humphries (narrator)

Max didn't want to be fixed. He wanted a friend who'd let him be Max. ✉️

Who it's for

Mary and Max are two lonely misfits on opposite sides of the world whose letters become the only place each feels understood.

Lonely→Understood

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What it is

Mary and Max is a 2009 Australian clay-animated film written and directed by Adam Elliot, narrated by Barry Humphries. A lonely eight-year-old girl in Melbourne, who faces neglect at home and rejection at school, picks a stranger's name from a New York phone directory and writes to him. The recipient, a middle-aged, isolated New Yorker, writes back, and the two begin a correspondence that lasts for decades.

Where to find it

Rent or buy on major digital stores. Streaming availability rotates; check JustWatch.

Before you start

Heads up: A suicide attempt and a friend's death.

Age: Not rated in US (not verified; suggested 14+)

Kindred spirits are not so scarce as I used to think.L. M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables, Chapter XIX. A Concert, a Catastrophe, and a Confe

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