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Rabbit Hole

Film · 2010 · Dir. John Cameron Mitchell; written by David Lindsay-Abaire (from his play). Starring Nicole Kidman, Aaron Eckhart, Dianne Wiest, Miles Teller, Tammy Blanchard, Sandra Oh

You're both grieving the same person. You just aren't grieving the same way. That doesn't mean you're losing each other.

Who it's for

Rabbit Hole shows two parents grieving the same child in opposite directions: Becca wants to clear away Danny's things and sell the house, while Howie holds on and keeps going to the support group.

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What it is

John Cameron Mitchell's 2010 drama, adapted by David Lindsay-Abaire from his own play, follows Becca and Howie Corbett (Nicole Kidman and Aaron Eckhart) eight months after their four-year-old son Danny was killed when he ran into the street after his dog. Their grief pulls them in different directions: Becca wants to remove reminders of Danny and sell the house, while Howie resists.

Where to find it

Rent or buy on major digital stores. Streaming availability rotates; check JustWatch.

Before you start

Heads up: A young child's death and grief.

Age: PG-13

Together they come, and when one sits alone with you at your board, remember that the other is asleep upon your bed.Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Joy and Sorrow”

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