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Shrek

Film · 2001 · Dir. Andrew Adamson & Vicky Jenson (DreamWorks); based on William Steig's 1990 picture book. Voices: Mike Myers, Eddie Murphy, Cameron Diaz, John Lithgow.

'They judge me before they even know me. That's why I'm better off alone.' Shrek said what every avoidant person thinks. 🧅💚

Who it's for

Beneath the jokes, Shrek is about a lonely outsider who's decided he's better off alone because people judge him on sight, and about a princess ashamed of the self she hides at night.

Lonely→Understood

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What it is

DreamWorks' 2001 animated film directed by Andrew Adamson and Vicky Jenson, loosely based on William Steig's 1990 picture book Shrek!. Shrek, an ogre who lives alone in his swamp, finds it overrun by fairy-tale creatures exiled by Lord Farquaad, and agrees to rescue Princess Fiona from a dragon-guarded castle so Farquaad will move them.

Where to find it

Rent or buy on major digital stores. Often on Peacock or Netflix. Streaming rotates, so check JustWatch. Soundtrack ('All Star', 'Hallelujah', 'I'm a Believer') on all platforms.

Before you start

Heads up: Crude humor and cartoon violence.

Age: PG (Common Sense: 6+)

In vain have I struggled. It will not do. My feelings will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you.Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice, Chapter XXXIV

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