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Mom's House, Dad's House: Making Two Homes for Your Child

Book · 1997 · Isolina Ricci, PhD (therapist, family expert and mediator) · Touchstone (Simon & Schuster); first published 1980

Not a broken home. Two homes.

Who it's for

For a parent in the middle of a separation, the hardest question is often "how do I protect my kids from this?" Ricci's answer is to stop thinking of a "broken home" and start building two real homes, each with its own routines and warmth.

Worried→Steady and prepared

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What it is

A long-running guide for separated, divorced and remarried parents on building two stable homes for their children. Isolina Ricci covers the emotional, practical, legal and financial sides of shared parenting: moving toward a constructive divorce, age-by-age needs of children, negotiating parenting agreements, handling a difficult ex, avoiding common myths about divorce, and parenting long-distance or alone, with…

Where to find it

Paperback, ebook and audiobook (Tantor); library copies and accessible formats (Bookshare).

Before you start

Heads up: Divorce and custody conflict.

Age: Not rated (written for adults)

Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina, Part 1, Chapter 1 (tr. Constance Garnett)

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