3000

Library / Codependency

What About Bob? artwork

Watch this when

What About Bob?

Film · 1991 · Dir. Frank Oz; screenplay by Tom Schulman, story by Alvin Sargent and Laura Ziskin. Starring Bill Murray, Richard Dreyfuss, Julie Hagerty, Charlie Korsmo, Kathryn Erbe (Touchstone

when you text your therapist "just checking in" for the fifth time ⛵

Who it's for

A broad comedy that happens to be a sharp picture of what over-reliance and missing boundaries look like from both sides.

Anxious, clingy or smothered→Amused, lighter, ready for baby steps

Feelings it meets

What it is

Bob Wiley, an anxious man with many phobias, attaches himself to his new psychiatrist, Dr. Leo Marvin, the author of a self-help book called Baby Steps. When Leo leaves for a family holiday at a lake house in New Hampshire, Bob tracks him down. Leo's wife and children warm to Bob, while Leo's attempts to get rid of him become steadily more unhinged.

Where to find it

Streaming availability rotates; check JustWatch. Available to rent or buy digitally.

Before you start

Heads up: Anxiety and therapy played for comedy.

Age: PG (language and comic violence)

And stand together yet not too near together:Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Marriage”

Tell 3000 how you feel.

Get your three picks
Free check-ins every day at try3000.app

Also for codependency