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Sullen Girl

Song · 1996 · Fiona Apple. Album: Tidal

When your quiet gets mistaken for attitude 🌊

Who it's for

Fiona Apple wrote this about how an assault in her youth left her withdrawn, and how that quiet was mistaken for sulking.

Misread and withdrawn→Understood

Feelings it meets

What it is

"Sullen Girl" is a song from Fiona Apple's 1996 debut album, Tidal. Apple has said it is largely about her life after being assaulted as a child. The title refers to how she came across as sullen and withdrawn in high school, where she often felt like an outsider. Many listeners heard it as a breakup song, a reading Apple called plausible, and she credits the song with helping her move forward.

Where to find it

All major streaming services.

Before you start

Heads up: References to sexual assault.

Age: Suggested 16+

And if it is a fear you would dispel, the seat of that fear is in your heart and not in the hand of the feared.Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Freedom”

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