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What Sarah Said

Song · 2005 · Death Cab for Cutie. Album: Plans

For everyone keeping vigil in a hospital chair tonight 🕯️

Who it's for

The song is a meditation on death set in a hospital, where the narrator waits by a loved one's deathbed.

Numb, helpless, hollowed out→Witnessed, less alone in the vigil

Feelings it meets

What it is

"What Sarah Said" is a song by Death Cab for Cutie, track 9 on their 2005 album Plans (Atlantic Records), credited to Ben Gibbard and Nick Harmer. It is a meditation on death built around a hospital visit to a seriously ill loved one, conveying the anxiety of pacing a waiting room. Plans as a whole carries a recurring theme of mortality.

Where to find it

All major streaming services.

Before you start

Heads up: Death and dying in a hospital.

Age: Suggested 13+

He who is too busy doing good finds no time to be good.Rabindranath Tagore, Stray Birds, no. 184

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