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The Night We Met

Song · 2015 · Lord Huron (performer; written by Ben Schneider) · from the album Strange Trails

You can replay the beginning a thousand times. It still won't change the ending. 🌙

Who it's for

The song captures counterfactual thinking, the what-if replaying that often follows a breakup, with unusual precision, so listeners feel their rumination named rather than judged.

Sad→Released (Catharsis)

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What it is

"The Night We Met" is a folk rock song by Lord Huron, written and produced by frontman Ben Schneider, from the band's second album, Strange Trails (2015). It is about lingering regret after a relationship ends and the wish to go back to where it began and choose a different path, with ghosts as a metaphor for memories of a former partner.

Where to find it

Spotify, Apple Music, YouTube Music, Amazon Music (widely available); a 2018 duet version with Phoebe Bridgers also exists.

Before you start

Heads up: Linked to a show depicting suicide.

Age: Ages 12+

They should remember their pleasures with gratitude, as they would the harvest of a summer.Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Pleasure”

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