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Song · 2019 · Summer Walker (performer and co-writer; interpolates Destiny's Child's Say My Name) · from the album Over It

If they can't claim you in public, what exactly are they doing with you in private? 👀

Who it's for

The song names a specific modern frustration, a partner who won't acknowledge the relationship publicly or on social media, which validates the feeling that something is off.

Insecure→Validated

Feelings it meets

What it is

The lead single from Summer Walker's debut studio album Over It, released in August 2019. Its chorus interpolates Destiny's Child's Say My Name. Walker addresses partners who take her passion for granted while refusing to acknowledge the relationship publicly, including on social media, and the video shows her fed up with lies. An extended version features Bryson Tiller.

Where to find it

Spotify, Apple Music, YouTube Music, Amazon Music (widely available); the official video (released Oct 2019) is on Summer Walker's YouTube channel; an extended version features Bryson Tiller.

Before you start

Heads up: May contain explicit lyrics.

Age: Ages 14+

The course of true love never did run smooth.William Shakespeare, A Midsummer Night's Dream, Act 1, Scene 1

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