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Lost One

Song · 2020 (single; album 2021) · Jazmine Sullivan (performer; co-written with Dave Watson Jr.; produced by Dave “Pop” Watson) · from the album Heaux Tales

Not every breakup song is about them. Some are about owning what we did. 🥀

Who it's for

Most breakup songs cast the listener as the one wronged; this one gives a voice to the person who knows they drove love away, a perspective that is common but rarely validated, which reduces isolation around guilt.

Guilty / Ashamed→Self-Compassion

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What it is

"Lost One" is a song by Jazmine Sullivan, co-written and co-produced with Dave Watson, released in August 2020 as the lead single from her album Heaux Tales. It is a sparse, guitar-led ballad about the emotional aftermath of a breakup, in which the narrator dwells on an unhealed wound and increasingly blames herself.

Where to find it

Spotify, Apple Music, YouTube Music, Amazon Music (widely available).

Before you start

Heads up: Guilt and regret after a breakup.

Age: Ages 12+

Mankind was my business.Charles Dickens, A Christmas Carol

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