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Leader of the Band

Song · 1981 · Dan Fogelberg (performer and writer; produced by Dan Fogelberg and Marty Lewis) · from the album The Innocent Age

Tell your dad what he gave you while he can still hear it. 🎸

Who it's for

The song turns a vague feeling of debt to a parent into specific, spoken gratitude, which gives listeners a template for saying what they have never said out loud.

Sad→Forgiving / At Peace

Feelings it meets

What it is

"Leader of the Band" is a song written by Dan Fogelberg, released in December 1981 on his album The Innocent Age and co-produced with Marty Lewis. It is a tribute to his father, Lawrence Fogelberg, a musician and bandleader, written while his father was still alive. Lawrence died in August 1982, after giving many interviews about the song.

Where to find it

Spotify, Apple Music, YouTube Music, Amazon Music (widely available).

Before you start

Heads up: May stir grief over a father's death.

Age: All ages

The roots below the earth claim no rewards for making the branches fruitful.Rabindranath Tagore, Stray Birds, no. 134

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