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Dancing On My Own

Song · 2010 · Robyn (performer; co-written and co-produced with Patrik Berger) · from the album Body Talk Pt. 1

Watching them love someone else from across the room, and dancing anyway. That's strength too. 🪩💔 #DancingOnMyOwn

Who it's for

Robyn described the song as a woman at a club watching her ex with someone new, a painfully specific scene that makes rejection feel recognised rather than silly.

Lonely→Released (Catharsis)

Feelings it meets

What it is

Dancing On My Own is the lead single from Robyn's 2010 album Body Talk Pt. 1, written by Robyn and Patrik Berger and produced by Berger with Robyn. A mid-tempo electropop track, it follows a woman alone in a crowded club near closing time who watches her ex dance with someone else; Robyn drew on Stockholm nightlife and the end of her engagement, and left much of the story open to interpretation.

Where to find it

Spotify, Apple Music, YouTube Music, Amazon Music (widely available). A slower 2016 cover by Calum Scott is also widely streamed.

Before you start

Age: Ages 9+

Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind; And therefore is wing'd Cupid painted blind.William Shakespeare, A Midsummer Night's Dream, Act 1, Scene 1

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